Love yourself more – increase your self- esteem now with coaching
Many of us are so passionate and in love with our partners yet do not have the same feelings towards ourselves. How do we love ourselves more?
Have you ever had that feeling when you are totally and utterly in love with somebody and want to be with them all the time? You cannot stop thinking about them, you think that they are wonderful and they can definitely do no wrong? Do you have those same feelings towards yourself?
The truth is many of us do not love ourselves enough. We rush around trying to please others, fitting in our daily chores and do not make time for ourselves. We try to connect with other people and aim to have fantastic relationships with our partners, family and friends – but not ourselves.
Often we do not know how to treat ourselves with respect and love. We have a poor self image and will often put ourselves down. Society actually has negative associations about loving oneself. Often when we say to somebody that ‘such and such’ love themselves, we are saying this in a negative way. But actually loving yourself is not a bad thing to do. When you love yourself you are happy and content in yourself and you treat yourself well and consequently you treat others well as you know how it feels to love. So maybe we need to think about the language that we use we when we say that ‘such and such’ love s themselves. we are probably trying to convey that actually that person is arrogant and vain. The difference between somebody that actually love s themselves for who they are and somebody who is arrogant is massive.
We need to learn to love ourselves , before we can give love to anyone else wholeheartedly. When you love yourself you cherish yourself. You will respect yourself and set yourself high standards. You will not abuse your body with too much food , excessive alcohol, cigarettes and drugs. You will look after your body. You will want to exercise to remain healthy and strong. You will say good things about yourself and others. When you love yourself you don’t need to put others down or compare yourself to others. When you love yourself you can cope and enjoy being on your own sometimes. You are simply happy in your own skin.
Self coaching
- On a scale of 1 – 10 where 10 is I totally love myself and 0 is I hate myself, where are you now?
- What is going on right now that tells you that you don’t love yourself?
- What have you done so far to improve things?
- What would it take for you to be a 10?
- By you not loving yourself totally, how is this having an effect on your life, such as your work, family, partner, friends, and social life?
- When you truly love yourself how this will improve your life in all the above areas?
- What would your guardian angel suggest that you do to help you love yourself more?
- What one step could you take to move yourself forward in loving yourself now?
- How will this option make you love yourself more?
- What are you going to do next to allow you to love yourself more?
- When will you start this?
- On a scale of 1- 10 where 10 is I am totally committed to loving myself and taking action where are you?
- If you are not a 10- what do you need to do to make it a 10?
These are the sort of questions that a coach will ask you to help you to clarify where you are now and where you want to be in the future. Together you will create a strategy for getting to where you want to be and define the actions that will produce the desired results. A coach is simply the catalyst for your change. By having weekly sessions, usually over a period of 4- 8 weeks will keep you on track to ensure that you really do make the changes that you need to feel great about yourself.
Coaching enables you to open up in a confidential, non-judgmental and safe environment, where you can share your deepest fears, explore your beliefs and values, declare your wildest dreams and be supported on a journey of living a more balanced and truly fulfilling life. A coach will give you feedback, insights, and guidance from an outside vantage point to help you to unlock your potential and discover your power from within. Coaching is a fantastic way of learning to love yourself and become aware of those destructive habits and that negative inner voice.
Increase your self esteem with a series of coaching sessions with me. I guarantee you will learn to love yourself more and you will feel fabulous. Call me now for more information – 07876 198671
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